HOW BIG CAN A GIRL DREAM?

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How big can a girl dream?
This question always strikes my mind since my childhood.Being born in a village to parents who already had plans for me was always a challenge. Bought up in another country with a mixture of culture and freedom made my mind to dream bigger.Living a life without restrictions was the biggest dream I ever had.Studying in a school where both boys and girls had equal rights and freedom was one of the best part of my life.There I started to identify the real me,the abilities I have in me and my teachers and friends were my back bone.
         Everything changed all of a sudden re planting me from a society who treats me well to a society who puts in restrictions in life.I had plans for me but my parents had their own plans for me.My Dreams had wings but was not allowed to fly.From a childhood of flying like a free bird to an adolescence of being caged.Everyone had plans for me but I was not allowed to have plans for myself. In this society of restrictions every single girl suffers the same.
          My career was decided by my parents and yes being the single child of the family I felt responsible for fulfilling their dreams but I always fail in doing things that are out of my interests.But still I struggle to fulfill their dreams.
Career was their choice but my life is just mine. When I take in responsibilities that doesn't mean that anyone can rule over my life. Every single girl faces these issues but how many of us are ready to fight against this? People post Feminist supporting incidents and the same will perform anti-female deeds. Im always proud to be a woman as I believe we are the saviours of this world as no single child will take birth without us. And myself is just fighting with my family and my society to choose my life.
        My dreams are my world and I'll never allow anyone to trespass into it. If I am capable of building my dreams I have the potential to give them wings. Life is always a challenge and we the competitors always fighting the battle to win. When you give up your dreams you are losing your signature. Live a life that makes an inspiration others. Always remember Your Dreams are just yours Rule them like a Queen and let the World watches you like a Superwoman......

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